4 years, 8 months.
Dear Jack,
I wanted to document this day for you because I believe it’s important to document your spiritual journey.
This morning on the 5 minute drive to your preschool, you cautiously asked me, “Daddy, one day, will all the people and all the animals be dead?”
I definitely wasn’t expecting such a deep question from you so early in the morning.
The fact that you even asked me that question shows me that you are processing your understanding of what death really means.
I’ve been curious for a while regarding at what point I would have a conversation like that with you.
It appears your understanding of death is based on what you see on Power Rangers and Disney movies, since someone (usually a parent) dies on nearly every animated Disney movie I’ve ever seen.
I answered your question as simply yet as accurately as I knew how:
“Yes, that’s true. One day, all the people and the animals will be dead. But for those of us people who believe in God and in Jesus, His Son, and if we help other people, then we will live in Heaven together.”
It somehow seems out of place to summarize our religious beliefs into such a small amount of words, but you are already familiar with this from what you hear at home and at church. But you seemed to be satisfied to my simple answer for your difficult question.
For the next few minutes until we got to your school, you were silent as you stared at the window.
As I helped you out of your car seat, I saw you seemed disheartened, so I asked you if were okay.
You put your head down and began crying softly.
I assured you whatever what it was, that we could talk about it; assuming you were sad because, in your words, one day we will all be dead, including the animals.
You looked up to answer me, “I just want Pandy!”
We had discovered last night that you had left one of your favorite stuffed animals, Pandy, at school.
Once we found Pandy inside your classroom this morning, you were no longer sad.
In other words, Pandy is still alive!
Love,
Daddy
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