As my regular readers of Family Friendly Daddy Blog already know, my family is building a house; closing date in January 29th, 2015.
In the process of planning out the rooms, my wife and I have decided that while we will have a TV in the bonus room, we won’t have one downstairs in the living room; or any other room.
That means in order to watch TV, you actually have to walk upstairs and isolate yourself. Therefore, the temptation is greatly reduced to walk in the door and veg out without spending quality time with other family members.
I believe it’s “little” decisions like that which contribute to health family communication and relationships.
A few weeks ago while reviewing a car here for Family Friendly Daddy Blog, I was sent an iPad and an iPhone to use in conjunction with the vehicle’s 4G LTE capabilities.
I should point out that I’m of the American minority; we have no smart phones in our household. My wife and I both have “dumb” phones instead.
The main reason is because we’re not willing to pay for a data plan. We are on a family plan with my parents and pay a monthly total of only $30 per month. Again, that’s total; not per person.
But even if it cost us no extra money per month to own smart phones, I still wouldn’t be excited.
I fully recognized that my family’s life is hurried enough. My wife and I both work; our son is in school all day. The commute time in Nashville is longer than the average large city.
We don’t need more interruptions or distractions in our lives. I feel that if we owned smart phones, it would only add to the anxiety.
Sure, I get the irony in the fact that I run this blog from a cheap ASUS laptop and a dumb phone. I was the official daddy blogger for Parents Magazine for 3 years and never once touched a smart phone.
Of all people, I should own a smart phone… or at least want one. But I don’t.
I won’t deny the fact that having a smart phone for that week made certain things more convenient. However, I found myself getting frustrated that I couldn’t use manage my blog with the same ease as a laptop.
Plus, I don’t like knowing that I can check my email or Facebook at any time. I’d rather just “shut it off” during the day.
With that being said, you could imagine I would easily like this book…Growing Up Social, by Gary Chapman (The 5 Love Languages) and Arelene Pellicane (31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife).
The book causes you to ask yourself, “Is technology bringing your family closer together or driving you farther apart?”
Growing Up Social teaches the five skills that every healthy child needs to master: affection, appreciation, anger management, apology, and attention:
The Skill of Affection – How do you show real love to another person?
The Skill of Appreciation – How do you cultivate a grateful heart?
The Skill of Attention – How do you focus and be a good listener?
The Skill of Anger Management – How do you express anger in a productive way?
The Skill of Apology – How do you mend a relationship after you make a mistake?
The focus is raising relational kids in a screen-driving world. So relevant!
And one lucky reader will win a free copy of this book today…
If you’re the first person to do so, I will respond by saying yes… After that, I will follow up by getting your address to give to the publisher so they can send you your won copy!
Update: A winner was found within just a few minutes of this post going live. The giveaway portion is now complete.
Did I just win Growing up social????
Thanks for reading today! And remember, I’ll be giving more books away; so stay tuned…
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