6 years, 9 months.
This past weekend, Mommy and I had our annual “Night Out in Nashville/Get Our Taxes Done the Next Day at H&R Block” event, while Nonna and Papa drove up from Alabama to stay home with you and your brother.
Mommy and I went to go see Adam Sandler perform at the Bridgesone Arena. It was one of the best days I have ever spent with Mommy in the fifteen years we have been together. I am so grateful that we were able to go do that.
Nonna always does a great job of proactively sending Mommy and me photos of what’s going on while we’re away.
My favorite picture of you was of you with the “Daddy puppet” you made at church last Father’s Day.
The caption read, “All I care about is peace and quiet.”
Of course, that was you doing your impression of me.
I feel honored that you represented me so well!
It has been no secret in our family, that since becoming a certified Enneagram coach back in November 2021, I have been on an ongoing adventure of self-discovery, as well as helping us learn more about each other.
Something I pray every morning is, “Help our family to find ways to show each other love, in the ways that we invididually need it.”
You have overhead me talk about it enough, that you know that I am an Enneagram 6; and that specifically, I constantly crave a sense of social security- which for me, is presented in the form of the people around me having fun in a calm and collaborative way.
This past week, you and your brother also brought more insight to me that I had never realized on my own:
“Mommy gets mad when her work is stressful. But you never get mad at work; no matter how crazy things get. Instead, you get mad when people around you are upset and not happy.”
This is 100% accurate. Being an Enneagram 6, I am the problem-solver, the trouble-shooter, and the stabilizer.
Work only stresses me out when there’s not enough problems for me to solve, because I am wired to provide solutions and calmness to the everyday chaos I am presented with. I truly enjoy what I do for a living.
However, it’s when I’m not working that I am most likely to get stressed out; as I am the one in our family who is constantly trying to make everyone feel happy and connected with each other.
I learn so much from you about myself! Thank you, Holly.