Is there any such thing as a family who doesn’t struggle to arrive to church before the service actually begins? Perhaps equally challenging is to show up without being stressed out or upset with each other.
The pastor of The Bridge Church, Josh Howerton, brings this up frequently- how ironic it is that it’s normal to fight in the car all the way to church, then put instantly put on smiles once the car ride is over and you walk through the doors of the church.
Last Saturday night, I decided to attempt to prevent this problem. And it actually worked- as simple as my plan was. Here’s what I did…
First, I initiated the conversation with my wife, acknowledging that our family is habitually late for church, and it’s typically a stressful morning, and that I wanted to do my part to change that.
So I asked her specifically what time we all needed to be up in the morning, so that everyone would have ample time to get ready in time.
Then I set my own alarm to the new time, to ensure that I led my family in our slight routine change.
I have to admit, it was a peaceful morning. It was enjoyable, actually. We even got to church early enough for one of the church greeters to take our family’s picture; to make up for the fact we forgot to do an obligatory Easter picture of our family for Facebook the week before.
So apparently that’s what it takes. It requires specific planning. But it all begins with the parents recognizing that an easygoing, on-time car ride to church is not the default.
I feel I am no longer in the denial of believing my family is the exception to the rule when it comes to the cliché stressful car ride to church.
And because of that, I am proactive enough now to change that for my family.
Here’s to getting the family to church on time and without the stress… for the 2nd time in a row.
This is 36.