Our New Sunroom

When we began looking for houses in Alabama as we were considering moving from Tennessee, the pattern became apparent quickly:

We were not going to be able find a house in Alabama comparable to what we had in Tennessee within our budget:

About 2,000 square feet; consisting of 4 bedrooms, plus a bonus room.

Instead, it was either downsize to 3 bedrooms and lose the bonus room, or… double our budget and the sqare footage. No in-between.

Since my wife and I have both been working from home full-time since 2020, we had to get creative when we bought our home in Alabama.

She set up shop in a corner of the dining room while I claimed a corner of our bedroom.

This meant for the past year and a half, anytime I needed a coffee break or eat lunch, I would have to hope it lined up with my wife not being on a call.

It worked, but it definitely inspired my wife to say: “We need to have somebody build me my own office… but I want it to be like a sunroom too.”

We got quotes from a few different contractors, but the one who won our vote was “Zack of All Trades“, who is based a few miles from us in the neighboring town of Valley Head.

The finished product has certainly exceeded our expectations. I love how it feels like a constistent extension of our existing 29 year-old home, yet it provides a unique space.

It doesn’t at all feel like a 2nd living room, nor a den, or even a bonus room.

Instead, it’s the perfect hybrid of a true office, a dance/music studio, and a game room… all with an amazing view of the mountains.

And since we had Zack tear out the old deck and replace it with this new room, he built us a smaller, more simpler deck with a staircase leading to it.

We love our new room! It added about 250 square feet to our home, but it has totally reinvented our living space.

 

Dear Holly: What You Do at Sleepovers as a 9 Year-Old

9 years, 4 months.

Dear Holly,

I am still not over the fact that Mommy and I are at the point in life where she and I can just go away for a weekend, leaving you and your brother at Nonna and Papa’s… and it’s totally okay with everybody!

And it helps even more that your cousin Darla joined in at your most recent sleepover, ensuring that there would be nonstop 9 year-old activities the whole time!

Of course, much of it revolves around your collection of dolls… as the event becomes “the dolls’ sleepover” perhaps more than your own, as you perceive it.

I love it that we live in the same state as family now!

Love,

Daddy

Dear Holly: The Trophy I Am Proudest Of

9 years, 3 months.

Dear Holly,

At my work desk, displayed in front of my fancy award for being one of the top recruiters a few years back at work, is the strip of photos our family recently took at the photo booth at Mommy’s work party.

I’ll directly point out the obvious:

The “trophy” I am proudest of in my entire life is my family.

It is not lost on me what a reward it is to have the wife and kids that I do.

I think of how fairy tales end with the classic phrase, “And they all lived happily ever after.”

Well, this is what that actually looks like in real life.

We’re living it, right now.

Love,

Daddy

Dear Jack: Your Instant New Hat Collection

14 years, 9 months.

Dear Jack,

This past Sunday, our family was invited to attend the big work party that Mommy was responsible for planning and directing.

When she explained there would be a “hat bar”, I just couldn’t comprehend what that even meant.

Once the party started, I suggested that our family be the first to try it out. I never would have imagined it would be so much fun to curate a collection of patches to be pressed on to a trucker hat. You immediately chose a Dale Earnhardt patch for your designated hat, as we assumed we would only get to make one hat per person.

But by the end of the party, since the cost of the hats and service were already paid for, you had some extra fun in creating some silly hats.

I would love to actually see you wear them in public…

Love,

Daddy

Dear Holly: Why There is a Roller Skate on Your New Hat

9 years, 3 months.

Dear Holly,

I’m sure I’ve pointed this out before, but I’m officially the person in our family who says “no”. It’s written into my DNA and therefore my role as the patriarch of our family.

Not only do I say “no” to questions like, “Can we get a pet dog?” and “Can we get a pool?”, but I also am the person who initiates what time we will go to an event and what time we will leave.

I’m the gatekeeper and the timekeeper. As I like to think, I keep things fun by creating and promoting the boundaries.

Accordingly, I make sure that you and your brother get to bed on time, and more importantly, get to sleep on time, each night.

It is of course your instinct to delay the bedtime process every single night: “I need a hair tie first… I need some water first… I need some lotion first… I need my stuffed animal first…”

I learned to proactively say, “Okay, Holly… it’s time to go take your shower. Before you do, I need you to go get your hair tie, your water, your lotion, your stuffed animal… your roller skates!”

Part of our nightly routine is for you to respond to my silly joke, “Daddy, I don’t need roller skates to go to bed!”

So when it came time for you to create your trucker hat this past weekend at the “hat bar” at Mommy’s work party, in addition to the shell I suggested to represent our last name, you obviously also chose to include a roller skate patch!

Love,

Daddy