Roll the dice. Press the buzzer. Time to play America’s favorite game. “Solitaire: Life Expectations Edition”.
Life is often a difficult and careful balance of two extremes. Not any two certain extremes- each situation has its own. But one in particular of these balances has proven consistently annoying: The balance of being a motivated, goal-oriented, hard-working American as well as living in accordance to God’s timing.
I have an agenda, a set plan, an order of events, a timeline by which I’m already behind on, according to me. Yet on a yearly basis, I’m stalled by a classic answer to many of my prayers: “wait, it’s not time yet”. And that’s what I call being faster than the speed of God.
Obviously, God, in all his power and lack of limitations can not be outrun. But by pointing him to my calendar and its several missed and delayed events, I’m simply reminding God of my inability to keep up with him- since his calendar doesn’t simply just move forward; he’s in every moment of the past as well as the present and future.
When God misses my appointments for his involvement in my life expectations, it also serves as a reminder that man-schemed plans are often irrelevant in the face of God. My life expectations are nothing more than an often-frustrating check-off list of a game that I am playing, involving other people at times, as my volunteers and spectators.
Graduate college and get a job. Check. Get married by age 27, which is the national average of American men when they get married. Check. Buy a house. Check. Have a baby by the time I’m 30. Check (of course, Lord willing).
Good for me. I’ve met some of my goals. My American society-influenced landmarks. Of course there are plenty more that I’m only beginning to scratch the surface of. So by playing the rules of my own game, I lose. Conveniently for me, though, I’ve still got the rest of my life to play this game, and accomplish these goals. Yet still, the humbling truth is that this game still doesn’t matter to God. His checklist for my life is much simpler, yet much more complicated. And from everything I can tell, it mainly just revolves around loving other people.
As for the film based on my non-fiction book, Scenic Route Snapshots, starring James Franco, it’ll have to be postponed until 2013. Because after all, I need to publish the book first. And according to my calendar, that’s scheduled to happen next year.
And yet I return to the pointless game of Solitaire: Life Expectations edition.