February 13, 2014 at 6:08 pm , by Nick Shell
3 years, 2 months.
I’m starting to really appreciate infographics. They provide an organized visual for interesting research; like this one, below, on sending text messages:
- 69% of all respondents said they “would be lost” without the ability to text
- Men text more than women (an average of 17 regular contacts)
- Men send shorter messages
- they generally see texting as a functional form of communications
- Women have an average of 13 regular text contacts. Men are 3x more likely to text work colleagues than women:
- Women tend to send longer messages
- more likely to say “I love you” via text (54%)
- they often use texting to deepen relationships
That’s interesting, yet I’m not at all surprised to see those findings.
Men and women not only think much differently, but they speak much differently to match it. You and I are males, meaning we are wired to speak in a different language than females.
It’s not a bad thing, though it often is a frustrating thing. But it’s also what makes the dynamics between males and females work.
Otherwise, we would function more like robots.
So instead of writing off the other gender because I’m not the best at speaking their language… I’m learning to speak their language.
I’m making myself the victor, not the victim.
Being married to Mommy for 5 and a half years has helped me a lot, via immersion, to learn how to say what I am wanting to say, in a way that others will hear it the way I want to say it.
Similarly, I have learned how to better understand what Mommy actually means versus what it naturally sounded like she was saying- because I was hearing hear with “man” ears.
I will always be very aware in helping you to speak. And I don’t just mean basic sentence structure and vocabulary, as I am right now with you only being 3 years old.
Basically, I mean for the rest of our shared lives- I will be here to help you know how to talk… like a man.
But more importantly, like a man who knows how to speak and listen in a way that is most efficiently understood by the listener; regardless of their gender.
Infographic by Image By Scratch Wireless